We all do some fronting once in awhile but when it becomes a part of you that right there is a big problem. When fronting starts becoming a part of you and people can't really differentiate you from it then you have lost it. When front so much it becomes so you and you end up losing your true self. You can't get to do anything because you are out to please someone or to prove something. I have fronted sometimes but most of the time it is in order to get something or out of something.
The problem with fronting is eventually it will all come out. I believe nothing under the sun will stay secret at least not for long. We have people fronting very many things like friendships, relationships, their identities, their motives, intentions as in the list really is endless. I don't know which one is better to front but trust me all of them come with consequences chances are you will not like it not even one bit. Human beings are both clever and complicated pleasing them or meeting their expectations is quite something so the best thing is to just be yourself live your life to the max as per how you want to not how you wan people to take you or what they expect.
Isn't it worse to lose a friendship or a relationship because of being fake or realizing it was all an act rather than save yourself a lot of drama by just being you. This way you also keep clutter out of your life. To me clutter is any unnecessary people who like you for all the wrong reasons or want to be with you for the wrong reasons. Be real, be yourself and the true people will stick by you and that way you get the true value of life.
Moving on swiftly, today is week 4 day 3 and so far I am proud of what I have achieved. I am slumping on the eating part made some wrong choices here and there but I will get back on track. I feel healthier and more fit than before. Yes I will reach there some day that is how optimistic I am.
The problem with fronting is eventually it will all come out. I believe nothing under the sun will stay secret at least not for long. We have people fronting very many things like friendships, relationships, their identities, their motives, intentions as in the list really is endless. I don't know which one is better to front but trust me all of them come with consequences chances are you will not like it not even one bit. Human beings are both clever and complicated pleasing them or meeting their expectations is quite something so the best thing is to just be yourself live your life to the max as per how you want to not how you wan people to take you or what they expect.
Isn't it worse to lose a friendship or a relationship because of being fake or realizing it was all an act rather than save yourself a lot of drama by just being you. This way you also keep clutter out of your life. To me clutter is any unnecessary people who like you for all the wrong reasons or want to be with you for the wrong reasons. Be real, be yourself and the true people will stick by you and that way you get the true value of life.
Moving on swiftly, today is week 4 day 3 and so far I am proud of what I have achieved. I am slumping on the eating part made some wrong choices here and there but I will get back on track. I feel healthier and more fit than before. Yes I will reach there some day that is how optimistic I am.
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