I have a confession to make. I have this really really bad habit I am trying to kick but it seems a bit hard. I can try and compare it to quitting smoking. I hear that is one of the most difficult habits to get rid off. Once you are soaked up in it lets just say it becomes a part of you. Oh well the bad habit is judging.
I am not sure it is a bad thing or a good thing but yes I do judge people. It doesn't matter wether I have known you for a minute a second or an hour but I sure will judge you. I will judge you from your appearance, the way you speak to your darn right every single thing. I am not sure I should apologize for this because fortunately or unfortunately we are being judged. Left,right, centre, back, front-yes turn around as in E-V-E-R-Y-W-H-E-R-E the is serious judgement going on. So I have come to terms with my habit and am trying to live with it. I will try not make it so obvious though I will conceal it. I will air my views only when necessary and if I think or feel it will add value to whoever I have passed judgement on.
I can bet we all judge and there is no need to apologize because without judging we would be comfortable with status quo. We are told to learn from other people's mistakes and how is that so? How in the first place do you recognize a mistake? BINGO you had to pass judgement. Lets not all look at judgement as a bad thing it just makes you better and lets you look at things differently. Judgement becomes a problem when its used to make you feel better about yourself. It is a problem when you start being all so self righteous. So be careful when you pass judgement not to put yourself on a pedestal.
So I will not stop judging because guess what somebody is judging me already right from this post. So go ahead get judgemental and who knows what it could for you.
I am not sure it is a bad thing or a good thing but yes I do judge people. It doesn't matter wether I have known you for a minute a second or an hour but I sure will judge you. I will judge you from your appearance, the way you speak to your darn right every single thing. I am not sure I should apologize for this because fortunately or unfortunately we are being judged. Left,right, centre, back, front-yes turn around as in E-V-E-R-Y-W-H-E-R-E the is serious judgement going on. So I have come to terms with my habit and am trying to live with it. I will try not make it so obvious though I will conceal it. I will air my views only when necessary and if I think or feel it will add value to whoever I have passed judgement on.
I can bet we all judge and there is no need to apologize because without judging we would be comfortable with status quo. We are told to learn from other people's mistakes and how is that so? How in the first place do you recognize a mistake? BINGO you had to pass judgement. Lets not all look at judgement as a bad thing it just makes you better and lets you look at things differently. Judgement becomes a problem when its used to make you feel better about yourself. It is a problem when you start being all so self righteous. So be careful when you pass judgement not to put yourself on a pedestal.
So I will not stop judging because guess what somebody is judging me already right from this post. So go ahead get judgemental and who knows what it could for you.
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